Updated as of 8/10 Let’s see who reads profiles. I don’t use chat apps so you can stop asking. That means no Viber, What’sApp, WeChat, Skype, ETC. I’d love to find someone who is within 5 years of my age, but that can be negotiated like most things in life. But something I can’t negotiate on is being out of the closet / being honest about your sexuality. I came out at 19 years old & haven’t seen a reason to hide who I was since & I see no reason on going backward in life over any guy. So if you don’t have a face pic in your profile where I can see your features (& I don’t mean your cell phone or your sunglasses) don’t expect a chat or me to approve a friend request. That being said it’s a ”friend” request, not a ”let’s fall in love today” request. I’d love to get married, but I’m not looking to race to the church with someone I barely know. As an atheist I really can’t say I care for churches much. One time I almost knocked out a priest, but that’s a different story. I don’t jump in bed with anyone. Infinitely open-ended questions I won’t answer. So don’t ask me things like, ”So tell me about you.” will often get ignored. My family, friends, job isn’t your business until you put a ring on this finger & we say I do. Choosing to share details of ones personal life is one thing, asking about them when I barely know you is out of line. After all who are you trying to get to know? I don’t n need to see nude body parts your mother hasn’t seen of you since you were in diapers. I’m sure it squirts, I’m sure it wiggles, some things should just be saved. Not that it matters. I really don’t care if a guy is ”Asian” or not. I just want a decent guy.
Are you spending my money?
The one thing I am most passionate about:
Lies: fake pics that aren’t really you, fake information in your profile. If you’re trying to start out a relationship with lies, then I’m constantly going to be on alert about when your next lie is coming from & it’s just not worth it. If you use the phrase, ”It’s not a lie because”. I’m not asking for a justification for your lie. I won’t even ask you to be honest about your lie. Simply put, you might be an associate but I won’t be considering you for anything serious.
Things I am looking for in a person are:
At least a year in a monogamous relationship where you’re living together.